Share A Healthy View of Each Other’s Relations

In-laws and out-laws: Relations are important. They are the ones who raised your spouse but none the less, many have out of zeal and desire to protect their son or daughter hurt the marriage they have gone into.

Successful marriages have learnt how to develop a healthy view of their spouse’s relations. This they do without allowing them to control their destiny. There are different types of problems, which can come up.

First among them of course is immature parents. These kind of parents keep close ties with their children. They unnecessarily impose laws and rules wanting to know how things run in the marriage of their children. Why? because they are still suffering from Oedipus complex – a disease that makes a person not want to release a son or daughter.

Unhealthy relationships can also come up when the spouses themselves depend on one of the parents for economic deliverance. That is why no matter how economically sound it is, it is unwise to be started in business by your father or mother in-law. It is also unwise to go and live in an apartment with them or belonging to them, even if it is for a short period. The damage done by such economically convenient arrangement will remain in your marriage for quite a long time.

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